Inquiry · Not Feeling Heard

When were you not acknowledged?

A self-reflection for being ignored or dismissed.

Three steps · About 2–3 minutes · Free, no account needed

01What happened
02A second look
03What you'll hold

Describe the moment you were ignored, dismissed or talked over. Who was there, and what happened next.

Start with where it happened, or tap the mic

What happened

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You leave with

The moment, seen from outside

What happened in the room, read back plainly.

A question to carry

One question to notice the next time it happens.

One thing to hold

Something you name yourself, and what would make it easier.

Being ignored rarely looks like much. No one said anything, nothing happened, and there is nothing to point at. So we never go back and look at it.

It stays with us anyway. Write it down while it is still live.

In short

Not Feeling Heard is a free, 3-minute guided inquiry for a moment of being ignored, dismissed or talked over. You describe what happened in the room. It reads the moment back from the outside and ends with a cue to notice the next time it happens, and one thing you decide to hold.

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