Conscious LivingGuided self-reflection

Not Feeling Heard

A self-reflection for being ignored or dismissed.

Three steps, about 3 minutes. Free, no account needed.

01What happened
02A second look
03What you'll hold

Describe the moment you were ignored, dismissed or talked over. Who was there, and what happened next.

Start with where it happened, or tap the mic

What happened

Your draft stays in this browser until you send it. Then Conscious Living AI writes back. Nothing you write is kept on our servers unless you save or email it, or have Plus with automatic saving on. It stays in this browser until you press Erase. What happens to what you write

You leave with

  • The moment, seen from outside
  • One question to ask yourself the next time it happens
  • One thing to hold: what you decide to do, and what could get in its way

Being ignored rarely looks like much. There is nothing to point at, so we never go back and look at it.

It stays with us anyway. Write it down while you still remember it clearly.

About this reflection

Not Feeling Heard is a free, 3-minute guided reflection for a moment of being ignored, dismissed or talked over. You describe what happened. It reads the moment back from outside and ends with a question for the next time it happens, and one thing you decide to do.

How the reflections are built

A question by email each week

Each one is a hand-written question to carry. Free, no account needed.

The first question is sent straight away, then one a week. Every email has a link to stop, and one for anyone who didn’t sign up for it. Privacy