Conscious LivingGuided self-reflection

Overthinking

A self-reflection for a moment you keep replaying, or one you keep bracing for.

Three steps, about 3 minutes. Free, no account needed.

01What keeps coming back
02A second look
03What you'll hold

Describe the moment, or the one ahead you keep rehearsing. Who was there, what was said, and what happened or what you picture happening.

Start with where it happened, or tap the mic

What happened

Your draft stays in this browser until you send it. Then Conscious Living AI writes back. Nothing you write is kept on our servers unless you save or email it, or have Plus with automatic saving on. It stays in this browser until you press Erase. What happens to what you write

You leave with

  • The moment, seen from outside
  • One question to catch the loop the next time it starts
  • One thing to hold: what you decide to do, and what could get in its way

Some moments replay so strongly they feel like they're happening again. What changes when you see one from outside?

Write it while it's still on your mind.

BackwardNowForward ruminationworry over whatalready happened over whatmight happen

About this reflection

Overthinking is a free, 3-minute guided reflection for a conversation, message or reaction that keeps replaying, or something ahead you keep rehearsing. You describe one real moment. It reads the moment back from outside and names the pattern the replay follows. Then it asks one follow-up and ends with a question to carry into the next time it starts.

Draws on research separating reflection from rumination, and concrete thinking from abstract. The studies are in the Overthinking field guide. How it works

A question by email each week

Each one is a hand-written question to carry. Free, no account needed.

The first question is sent straight away, then one a week. Every email has a link to stop, and one for anyone who didn’t sign up for it. Privacy