“I lie even when I don't need to”
What could be going on
Lies easily without discomfort: Lying easily fits; check whether it brings discomfort or none.
Shame: Lies can hide a self you feel ashamed of; check what the lies are covering.
Impression management: Fits if the lies polish how you look; check whether they happen mostly with certain people.
Fawn response: Lies to avoid anger fit; check whether truth felt dangerous at home.
Punitiveness schema: Fits if mistakes were harshly punished, so lying felt safer; check how errors were treated at home.
ADHD in adults: Impulsive, unplanned lies can come with ADHD; check whether you blurt them before thinking.
Questions to carry
- In the last small lie, what was I trying to protect, my image or something else?
- What do I feel in the second before I lie?
Also said as
- I lie about small things for no reason
- my partner lies about everything
- why do I make things up
- compulsive lying
- I lie for no reason
- why do I lie about everything