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Schemas: a field guide

The psychologist Jeffrey Young described eighteen schemas: lasting patterns in how we see ourselves and other people. In his model, each forms when a need in childhood goes unmet, and each runs on a sentence that feels like plain truth.

The full name is early maladaptive schemas, said mal-uh-DAP-tiv SKEE-muhz.

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Schemas are working ideas, not diagnoses. If thinking about the past brings up memories that are hard to carry, a therapist trained in schema therapy or trauma is a good place to take them. findahelpline.com lists free, confidential helplines by country.

The lifetraps and the schemas

Open an entry for how it shows, what sets it off and how the therapy describes change.

The 11 lifetraps from Reinventing Your Life (1993), the book Young wrote with Janet Klosko for everyday readers. They are the simpler way in, and the book has a full questionnaire for each.

Young's full set: eighteen schemas in five domains, each domain on its own folder. Schema therapy now groups them in four, and a 2022 review pooling 13,958 people found only weak support for any of the proposed groupings, so we keep Young's five only as a way to find your way around.

Young later named seven more schemas that aren't lifetraps.

Disconnection and rejection

The need behind it: Safe, steady connection with people who stay, care for us and accept us as we are.

Impaired autonomy and performance

The need behind it: Room to grow capable and separate, and to try, stumble and learn on our own.

Impaired limits

The need behind it: Fair, loving limits, and the give and take of living with others.

Other-directedness

The need behind it: Our own needs, feelings and voice counting as much as anyone else’s.

Overvigilance and inhibition

The need behind it: Ease, play and feeling, and kindness when we or others get things wrong.

A book we recommendThe Child Who Lives Within UsDr. Riyadh Al-Baldawi, with commentary by Master Dhyan VimalA psychiatrist’s book on the child part in each of us, which he calls the child schema, and on how the adult in us can lead. Get the bookMore books we recommend

How to read an entry

In the schema model, a schema is more than a thought we could argue with. The model describes four threads that tend to come together: a memory of the early experience it grew from, the emotion that goes with it, the body sensation we feel, and the belief on top.

The model proposes that this is why schema therapists work on all four threads, not the belief alone. That is how the therapy describes it, not an established finding about how the mind works. Each page shows what the four threads might look like for that pattern.

Every entry has the same parts in the same order. It starts with the sentence the schema runs on and ends with how the therapy describes change.

Abandonment

The fear that people will leave.

Memory
Early loss, separation, or caregivers whose presence came and went: illness, divorce, addiction, or death.
Emotion
Fear and anxiety about loss, grief, and at times anger at being left.
Body
Often tightening or hollowness in the chest, restlessness when closeness feels threatened.
Belief
“Whoever I love will leave,” “I cannot count on anyone to stay.”
In the model, when a moment echoes an old one, the four threads can come up together, and the belief can feel like a fact.

Three ways we keep it going

A moment echoesan old oneThe fourthreads come uptogetherWe give in,avoid it, or dothe oppositeThe old belieffeels proven
Why it’s called a trap. Each way of coping brings us back to where we started, and the belief feels proven again.

Young saw three ways of coping with any schema. Each makes sense in the moment and leaves the belief in place.

  • Giving inSurrender

    We live as if the sentence were true.

    With abandonment: Choosing distant or inconsistent partners

  • AvoidingAvoidance

    We steer around anything that could set it off.

    With abandonment: Avoiding close attachment altogether

  • Doing the oppositeOvercompensation

    We act as if the opposite were true, often with more force than the moment needs.

    With abandonment: Leaving first to avoid being left

So two people with the same schema can look nothing alike, and two people who look alike can carry different schemas.

Three coworkers, one belief, after the same meeting

All three carry the same belief about themselves, and on the outside they look nothing alike. Watch what each one does with the same moment.

At a team meeting, the manager says the quarterly report has errors and needs another pass. Three people worked on it. Each of them, deep down, believes they are not good enough. Later that day, each talks to a friend.

  • Maya

    I said sorry about four times before she'd even finished. Then I stayed until nine redoing my part, and honestly, I think she's right about me. I'm the weak link on that team. I always have been.

  • Tom

    I wasn't there. I'd told them I had a dentist appointment, but really, I just knew the report would get picked apart. I haven't put my hand up for anything big in two years. It's easier to keep my head down.

  • Ravi

    The errors came from the data team, and I said so. I also reminded her that I built half of that report. Then I sent her an email listing the mistakes in the last report she wrote herself. I couldn't sleep, though. I kept replaying it.

Maya treats the belief as true. Tom arranges his work so nothing can touch it. Ravi acts as if the opposite were true, and the night of replaying shows how much it stung.

Jeffrey Young, who developed schema therapy, would call the shared belief the defectiveness schema: a sense of being flawed or unlovable underneath. He described three ways of coping with any schema. Surrender means living as if the schema is true, as Maya does. Avoidance means steering around whatever could set it off, as Tom does. Overcompensation means acting as if the opposite were true, as Ravi does, often with more force than the moment needs.

The three ways of coping are why the same schema can look so different from one person to the next. Seen from outside, Ravi seems confident and Maya seems insecure. One meeting can't show that any of them has this schema. Young's model looks for a thread that runs through many such moments.

The parts a schema calls up

A schema is a pattern we carry for years. A mode is the state a schema puts us in for a while: an hour, an evening, one conversation.

Vulnerable Child
The young part that still feels the old need: scared, lonely, ashamed or small.
Coping modes
What steps in to protect that part: giving in, shutting down or pushing back.
Inner-parent voice
The critical or demanding voice we took in from early caregivers.
Healthy Adult
The calm, grown-up self that can hold the other parts and lead.

Where the inner-parent voice runs loud

The voice runs loud where a schema grew from criticism or harshness, and mild or almost silent where it grew from loss, absence, too much help or too few limits.

How schemas show

At work

A reaction out of proportion to what happened, repeating from job to job: the same kind of boss, the same kind of falling-out. In surrender, the schema is in plain view, as when someone runs down their own work before anyone else can. In avoidance, it shows as gaps: never pitching an idea, never handing work to others, never getting close to a manager. In overcompensation, it looks like the reverse, such as arrogance over a sense of being flawed, or control over a fear of harm. Overcompensation can come with rigidity, and with overreacting when the sore spot is touched.

In relationships

We often feel the strongest pull toward partners who set off our core schema, because it feels familiar. Young called this schema chemistry. Someone with an abandonment schema falls for a partner who is hard to reach. Someone who learned to give in falls for a partner who takes charge. Fights can follow schema clashes, where each partner's way of coping confirms the other's schema.

In ourselves

A schema may be at work when a feeling is old, intense and familiar, and we know how the story ends before it starts. It often comes with a sense that this is just how things are, about us or about other people.

How schemas differ from similar ideas

Cognitive distortions (overview)
A cognitive distortion is a single error in thinking, such as jumping to conclusions, and it tends to come and go with mood. A schema is a lasting theme that is there even when the person is well. It shows in life choices, such as partners and jobs, as well as in thoughts.
Internal working model
Working models come from attachment theory. They are about whether others will be there for us and whether we are worth caring for. Schemas cover a wider set of needs, including autonomy, limits and standards. That is why they can also describe the person who breaks every rule, or the one who can never stop working.
Life script
A life script, an idea from transactional analysis, is a story we decided on early, with a planned ending. Schemas are themes plus ways of coping. They predict how we react when something sets them off, with no fixed plot.

What a schema doesn’t mean

It doesn't mean our parents are to blame.

Young wrote that schemas grow from a child's temperament meeting the world around them. Some form after hurt or neglect. Others form after too much of a good thing, such as a child who was given no limits. A schema can form in a family that was doing its best.

Having a schema doesn't mean it runs all the time.

Most people carry several schemas, at different strengths. A schema tends to stay in the background until a moment echoes the ones where it began, and then it fires. On a calm day, the same person may not feel it at all.

Where the idea comes from

  1. 1990Jeffrey Young sets out a schema-focused way of working, built on cognitive therapy.
  2. 1993Young and Janet Klosko write Reinventing Your Life, naming eleven lifetraps for everyday readers.
  3. 2003Young, Klosko and Marjorie Weishaar describe all eighteen schemas and the modes for clinicians.
  4. 2010Jill Lobbestael and colleagues publish the Schema Mode Inventory, a way to measure the modes.

What the research shows

Good research

The evidence is moderate. The Young Schema Questionnaire measures most of the 18 schemas reliably, and every schema is linked with depression. Randomized trials support schema therapy for borderline and other personality disorders. The five domains don't come out cleanly when the schemas are analyzed, and the three coping styles come mostly from clinical work and have been measured less often.

All 18 schemas were linked with depression, and social isolation and defectiveness had the strongest links

In 2022, Amy Bishop, Rita Younan, Jennifer Low and Pamela Pilkington pooled 51 studies of adults, 17,830 people in all. Every one of Young's 18 schemas was linked with depression.

A correlation shows how closely two things rise together, where 0 means no link and 1 a perfect one. The links ran from small, at .23 for entitlement, to large, at .53 for social isolation, the sense of not belonging anywhere. Defectiveness, the sense of being flawed or unlovable, was close behind at .50.

What it doesn’t show: Most of the studies measured schemas and depression at the same time. They can't tell us whether a schema leads to depression, or whether depression colors how people rate themselves. The schemas also overlap, so part of a link with one may belong to others.

Amy Bishop, Rita Younan, Jennifer Low and Pamela Pilkington, Early maladaptive schemas and depression in adulthood: a systematic review and meta-analysis, Clinical Psychology and Psychotherapy, 2022.

When the schemas were pooled across 13,958 people, Young's five domains didn't come out cleanly

In 2022, Jens Thimm combined 27 studies that used the Young Schema Questionnaire, with 33 groups and 13,958 people. The groups' average ages ran from 16 to 72. He looked at how the 18 schemas cluster, to see whether they fall into Young's five domains.

None of the domain models proposed so far fit well, Young's five included. The standard statistical tests pointed to two broad groups. Thimm kept four, because they were easier to read and close to the four domains schema therapy now uses: disconnection and rejection, impaired autonomy and performance, excessive responsibility and standards, and impaired limits. In a five-group solution, the fifth group held only self-sacrifice. Three groups gave the simplest structure of all.

What it doesn’t show: It shows how the schemas cluster on average, and it doesn't test whether any single schema is real or useful. Only studies using the Young Schema Questionnaire were included, and its versions may not measure quite the same thing. One researcher coded all the studies, which raises the risk of error.

Jens Thimm, The higher-order structure of early maladaptive schemas: a meta-analytical approach, Frontiers in Psychiatry, 2022.

In a three-year trial for borderline personality disorder, about twice as many recovered with schema therapy

In 2006, Josephine Giesen-Bloo, Arnoud Arntz and seven colleagues reported a trial in four community mental health centers in the Netherlands. It included 88 people with borderline personality disorder. Chance decided who got schema therapy and who got transference-focused psychotherapy, a psychodynamic therapy built for the same disorder. Both ran for three years, with two sessions a week.

Both groups improved on every measure. After three years, 45.5 percent of the schema therapy group had recovered, against 23.8 percent of the other group. People were also more likely to drop out of transference-focused psychotherapy.

What it doesn’t show: There was no group given usual care or no treatment. The research assistants gradually learned who had which therapy, and the study psychiatrists knew all along. Each therapy was supervised by its own developers, Jeffrey Young among them, and Arnoud Arntz is a leading researcher of schema therapy. It is one trial, and it tested the therapy as a whole.

Josephine Giesen-Bloo, Richard van Dyck, Philip Spinhoven, Willem van Tilburg, Carmen Dirksen, Thea van Asselt, Ismay Kremers, Marjon Nadort and Arnoud Arntz, Outpatient psychotherapy for borderline personality disorder: randomized trial of schema-focused therapy vs transference-focused psychotherapy, Archives of General Psychiatry, 2006.

In a trial for six other personality disorders, more people recovered with schema therapy than with usual treatment

In 2014, Lotte Bamelis, Silvia Evers, Philip Spinhoven and Arnoud Arntz reported a trial run in 12 Dutch mental health centers from 2006 to 2011. It included 323 people with avoidant, dependent, obsessive-compulsive, paranoid, histrionic or narcissistic personality disorder. Chance decided who got 50 sessions of schema therapy, the center's usual treatment, or another talking therapy called clarification-oriented psychotherapy. The groups had 147, 135 and 41 people.

Three years after treatment began, interviewers who didn't know who had which treatment judged who had recovered. More people recovered with schema therapy than with either of the others, and fewer dropped out of it than out of usual treatment. A second group of schema therapists, trained mainly through practice exercises, got better results than the first group, trained mainly through lectures.

What it doesn’t show: On questionnaires people filled in about themselves, the treatments didn't differ. Only 41 people had the other talking therapy. The trial tested schema therapy as a whole, so it can't show which part helped or whether schemas themselves changed. Arnoud Arntz, the senior author, is one of the main researchers behind schema therapy.

Lotte Bamelis, Silvia Evers, Philip Spinhoven and Arnoud Arntz, Results of a multicenter randomized controlled trial of the clinical effectiveness of schema therapy for personality disorders, American Journal of Psychiatry, 2014.

Taken together: Each of the 18 schemas is linked with depression, though most studies can't show which came first. Social isolation and defectiveness have the strongest links. The five domains are a useful map more than a firm finding. In two large Dutch trials, more people recovered from personality disorders with schema therapy than with the treatments it was compared with.

Schema modesGood researchSchema therapy built on the mode model has good randomized-trial support for borderline personality disorder (e.g. Giesen-Bloo and colleagues, 2006) and modes are measured with the Schema Mode Inventory, but evidence outside personality disorders is thinner.

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Questions people ask

What are early maladaptive schemas?

Early maladaptive schemas are broad, lasting beliefs about ourselves and other people that form in childhood when a core need goes unmet. Jeffrey Young described them in schema therapy, starting around 1990. A schema feels like plain truth to the person who holds it, such as "people always leave" or "I'm flawed underneath." It tends to fire in moments that echo where it began, bringing feelings that are much bigger than the moment.

What are the 18 early maladaptive schemas?

Young grouped 18 schemas into five domains. Disconnection and rejection holds abandonment, mistrust and abuse, emotional deprivation, defectiveness and shame, and social isolation. Impaired autonomy and performance holds dependence, vulnerability to harm, enmeshment and failure. Impaired limits holds entitlement and insufficient self-control. Other-directedness holds subjugation, self-sacrifice and approval-seeking. Overvigilance and inhibition holds negativity, emotional inhibition, unrelenting standards and punitiveness.

Is there a test for maladaptive schemas?

The standard measure is the Young Schema Questionnaire. Its long form has 232 statements and its short form has 90, five for each schema, each rated from 1 to 6 for how well it describes us. It is copyrighted and usually given by a therapist, who reads the scores alongside a person's history. Free versions online vary a lot. This library's own schemas self-check has 18 short scenes, one for each schema, in our own untested wording, so it points to places to read first and diagnoses nothing.

What are the three schema coping styles?

The three coping styles are surrender, avoidance and overcompensation. Surrender means living as if the schema is true, such as staying with a partner who confirms it. Avoidance means arranging life so the schema is never set off, such as never getting close to anyone. Overcompensation means acting as if the opposite were true, such as dominating others to cover a sense of being flawed. One person can use all three at different times.

What is the difference between schemas and schema modes?

A schema is a lasting trait, and a mode is a state. A mode is what is active in a person right now: some schemas, the feelings they bring and a way of coping. Schema therapy names modes such as the vulnerable child, the punitive parent and the healthy adult. Modes were worked out for people whose state can switch fast, as in borderline personality disorder, where working with many schemas at once was hard to keep track of.

What causes early maladaptive schemas?

In Young's account, schemas form when core needs in childhood go unmet, shaped by the child's own temperament. Research supports a link with childhood hardship. In a review of 33 studies, Pamela Pilkington, Amy Bishop and Rita Younan found the strongest link between emotional neglect and the emotional deprivation schema, at .51. Most of these studies asked adults to recall childhood and measured everything at once, so they can't prove cause.

Can early maladaptive schemas change?

Schema therapy is built on the idea that they can weaken over time. It combines several kinds of work. Talking examines the belief. Imagery work goes back to scenes from childhood, and in chair work a person speaks to an imagined parent or to a part of themselves. Both reach the feelings behind the belief. Practice in daily life tries out new ways of acting, and the therapist offers a relationship that meets some of the old need. In trials for personality disorders, more people recovered with schema therapy than with the comparison treatments. Those trials measured recovery more than the schemas themselves.

Asking how old the feeling is

When a reaction is much bigger than the moment, we usually look at the moment. Young's model adds a question about the past: whether the feeling is an old one, and which need it first grew around.

How old do I feel right now, and what does this remind me of?

Try it: three strong reactions, one thread

Think of three times, in different parts of life, when you reacted more strongly than the moment seemed to call for. Then fill in three boxes.

If one need links all three, such as being left, being judged or being controlled, that thread may be worth looking at. The third box can show which way of coping you reach for. Three moments can't show a schema, and the schemas self-check in this library gives a wider first look.

Our self-check has eighteen short scenes, one for each schema, and takes about 5 minutes. The check’s own page says where your answers go.

Where do your answers sit?

The result lists the schemas that sounded most like you as places to read first, shows where each sits in Young’s map, and gives two questions to carry for each.

Take the self-checkOr browse the eighteen first

An educational guide in our own words. It doesn’t reproduce official definitions, questionnaires or exercises, and nothing here is a diagnosis. Each pattern is one that could explain what we notice, never a final word on anyone. It isn’t affiliated with or endorsed by Jeffrey Young, Janet Klosko, Marjorie Weishaar or the International Society of Schema Therapy, and it is no substitute for care from a licensed professional.

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