Situation · Yourself

“I'm too sensitive and cry at everything”

What could be going on

Sensory processing sensitivity (highly sensitive person): Deep processing and being easily overwhelmed fits; check reactions to noise and crowds.

Neuroticism: A temperament with intense negative emotion fits; check whether it's lifelong.

Emotional dysregulation: Fits if feelings rise fast and take long to settle.

Rejection sensitivity: Fits if tears come mostly with criticism or feeling left out.

Differential susceptibility (orchid and dandelion): Sensitive people do worse in harsh settings and better in good ones; check environment.

Stress response and allostatic load: Stress and tiredness lower the threshold for tears; check whether it's recent.

Questions to carry

  1. What had just been said or seen the last time I cried, and who was there?
  2. Who first told me I was too sensitive, and how do I feel about my tears now?

Also said as

  • I'm overly emotional
  • people say I'm too sensitive
  • my son cries at the smallest things
  • loud places overwhelm me
  • I feel everything too much
  • I cry easily

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