“I feel like a fraud at work”
What could be going on
Impostor phenomenon: Believing success is luck and fearing exposure fits; check whether evidence of competence changes anything.
Feels like an impostor despite results: Feeling fake despite real results fits this; check how you explain each win.
Discounting the positive: Fits if praise and results are dismissed as not counting; check what would count.
Perfectionism: Fits if anything short of flawless feels fake; check your standard for good enough.
Contingent self-worth: If worth depends on performing, every task feels like a test you might fail.
Role conflict and ambiguity: A new or unclear role can make anyone feel unsure; check whether expectations were ever spelled out.
Questions to carry
- Who was watching the last time I felt like a fraud, and what had just happened?
- Which proof of my ability do I keep explaining away?
Also said as
- I'm scared they'll find out I'm not good enough
- imposter syndrome
- my wife has great results but thinks she's a fake
- I feel like I don't deserve my job
- I feel like I tricked everyone
- I feel like a fake at my job