Situation · Yourself

“I can't stop scrolling on my phone”

What could be going on

Behavioural addiction: Repetitive scrolling despite harm fits; check for loss of control and irritability without it.

Intermittent reinforcement: Feeds reward unpredictably, which makes the habit sticky; check whether you're hunting the next hit.

Experiential avoidance: Scrolling may be escape from a feeling; check what comes up when you put it down.

Addiction as an attempted solution to pain (Maté): Ask what pain the scrolling soothes; check loneliness, boredom or stress.

ADHD in adults: Fits if attention has always craved stimulation; check childhood distractibility.

Ego depletion: Tired evenings drain self-control; check whether it's mostly when you're spent.

Questions to carry

  1. Right before I last picked up my phone, what was I doing or feeling?
  2. Which feeling would be waiting for me if I put the phone down for an hour?

Also said as

  • I'm addicted to my phone
  • I doomscroll for hours
  • my teenager can't put the phone down
  • I scroll TikTok till 3am
  • I pick up my phone without thinking
  • I'm hooked on my phone

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