“I can't stop scrolling on my phone”
What could be going on
Behavioural addiction: Repetitive scrolling despite harm fits; check for loss of control and irritability without it.
Intermittent reinforcement: Feeds reward unpredictably, which makes the habit sticky; check whether you're hunting the next hit.
Experiential avoidance: Scrolling may be escape from a feeling; check what comes up when you put it down.
Addiction as an attempted solution to pain (Maté): Ask what pain the scrolling soothes; check loneliness, boredom or stress.
ADHD in adults: Fits if attention has always craved stimulation; check childhood distractibility.
Ego depletion: Tired evenings drain self-control; check whether it's mostly when you're spent.
Questions to carry
- Right before I last picked up my phone, what was I doing or feeling?
- Which feeling would be waiting for me if I put the phone down for an hour?
Also said as
- I'm addicted to my phone
- I doomscroll for hours
- my teenager can't put the phone down
- I scroll TikTok till 3am
- I pick up my phone without thinking
- I'm hooked on my phone