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Displacement

Also called displaced aggression, kicking the cat

Neurotic defence; mental inhibitions level on the DSM-IV scale; secondary in McWilliams' scheme. A feeling is redirected from the person or thing that caused it onto a safer target.

What drives it

Lets the feeling out without risking the relationship or power structure that produced it: the board can't be shouted at, the team can.

How it shows

Work

A leader humiliated by the board is savage with the team that afternoon. Fury over a small process error after a big loss elsewhere. The target feels the anger is out of proportion and somehow not about them, which is correct.

Relationships

A bad day at work comes out as a row about the dishes. Anger at a parent shows up as hostility toward the partner's family. Phobias can be displaced fear, with dread landing on a manageable object.

Self

Irritation too big for what triggered it, aimed at someone with less power than whoever upset you earlier.

What tells it apart

Projection: Projection attributes your feeling to someone else; displacement keeps the feeling as yours but aims it at the wrong target.

Anger as a secondary emotion: Secondary anger covers a softer primary feeling such as hurt; displacement is about the target rather than the layering, and the two often co-occur.

Scapegoating: Scapegoating is a group process that singles out one target over time; displacement is individual, and the target can change daily.

A test

Ask what happened earlier in the day; if the anger shrinks once the earlier event is named, it was displaced.

Questions to carry

  1. Earlier in the day, before the outburst, what happened that couldn’t be answered back?
  2. Who gets the anger I can’t safely give to the person who caused it?

How strong the research is

moderate. A clinical concept whose core claim is supported by experimental work on displaced aggression (Marcus-Newhall, Pedersen and Carlson, 2000 meta-analysis).

Where it comes from

Sigmund Freud, 1894 and 1900

On the family tree: Sigmund Freud

Sources

  • Sigmund Freud, The Interpretation of Dreams (1900)

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