Situation · Partners and dating
“My partner flirts with other people in front of me”
What could be going on
Triangulation: Fits if flirting seems aimed at making you jealous or insecure.
Narcissistic supply: He may need constant attention from others to feel worthwhile.
Tests you: Check whether it's a test of your reaction or commitment.
Histrionic personality: Fits if he generally seeks attention through charm and drama everywhere.
Extraversion: Could be a naturally warm, playful style; check whether he notices and stops if you say it hurts.
Boundaries: You may have different ideas of what's acceptable; check whether it's been discussed openly.
Questions to carry
- The last time it happened, where was my partner's attention, on them or on whether I was watching?
- In that moment, what do I do with what I feel, and what do I say later?
Also said as
- my girlfriend flirts with guys when we go out
- he openly flirts with waitresses to get a reaction from me
- why does my husband flirt with my friends
- my boyfriend flirts with other girls in front of me
- my wife flirts with other men when we're out
- why does he flirt with people right in front of me