“I work all the time and can't switch off”
What could be going on
Workaholism: A compulsion to work with guilt when stopping fits; check how rest feels.
Works constantly, can't stop: Working constantly and being unable to stop fits; check whether it's chosen or driven.
Contingent self-worth: Fits if you only feel worthwhile when productive; check what an idle afternoon does to your mood.
Manic defence: Constant activity can keep low feelings away; check what comes up when you stop.
Type A behaviour pattern: Time urgency and competitive drive fit; check impatience and hostility.
Organisational justice: Could be workplace pressure, not inner drive; check whether the job demands it.
Questions to carry
- The last evening I tried to stop, what pulled me back to work first?
- Who am I when I am not working, and how comfortable am I with that person?
Also said as
- I feel guilty when I'm not working
- my wife works every weekend and can't stop
- I don't know how to relax
- I'm a workaholic
- holidays make me anxious
- I can't stop working