Situation · Work

“My team won't speak up in meetings”

What could be going on

Psychological safety: Fits if speaking up has cost someone before; check what happened to the last person who disagreed.

Whole team sees the problem, nobody says it: Everyone seeing the problem but nobody naming it fits; ask privately what they really think.

Changes their view to match the boss: Fits if they wait for your view first and then echo it.

Pluralistic ignorance: Each may privately disagree but assume the others agree; anonymous input would show it.

Defensive routines (Argyris): Fits if meetings have unspoken rules that keep anyone from being embarrassed.

Introversion and extraversion (Jung's original sense): Some people think before they speak; check whether they contribute more in writing or one to one.

Questions to carry

  1. The last time someone did speak up, how did the room respond, and how did I respond?
  2. When the silence falls, what do I do in the next few seconds?

Also said as

  • nobody on my team ever says anything
  • why don't my staff give their opinion
  • I ask for feedback and get silence
  • everyone just sits there quietly when I ask a question
  • staff are silent in meetings
  • no one contributes ideas at team meetings

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