“My parents still pay for me and I hate it”

What could be going on

Financial dependence: Fits if you rely on their money and feel less able, and less sure of yourself, the longer it goes on.

Financial enabling: Could be their side of it. Check whether they offer before you ask, or make it hard to stop.

Financial enmeshment: Fits if the money comes with their worries, opinions or a say over your choices.

Dependence/incompetence schema: Check whether you doubt you'd cope alone in other areas too, not only money.

Money shame: Fits if the hate is mostly shame at what needing them says about you.

Emotional blackmail (fear, obligation, guilt): Could be money used to keep control. Check what happens when you make a choice they don't like.

Also said as

• my parents pay my rent and i feel ashamed
• i'm 30 and still rely on my parents
• my dad gives me money and i hate needing it
• financially dependent on my parents
• can't support myself
• my mum pays my bills and uses it against me