“I'm stuck in survival mode”
What could be going on
Survival mode: The popular name. Fits if you live week to week, can't plan, and rest feels unsafe.
Scarcity and the bandwidth tax: Could be the bandwidth tax: money worry leaves less room to think. Some of the early studies didn't replicate.
Financial strain: Fits if the strain is real: arrears, debt, not enough coming in. That may be a fact, not a mindset.
Stress response and allostatic load: Check whether months of stress show in sleep, illness and a body that never stands down.
Present bias: Fits if the nearest deadline wins every time, so the long-term plan never gets a turn.
Burnout: Could be work exhaustion. Check whether the depletion follows work hours more than money worries.
Questions to carry
- When I last had a free hour, where did my mind go within the first minute?
- What would I be able to stop watching for, if things were safe for a month?
Also said as
- always in fight or flight about money
- living paycheck to paycheck and can't think ahead
- can't plan beyond this week
- just getting by every month
- exhausted from just surviving
- how do i get out of survival mode