“I stay in a job I hate for the money”
What could be going on
Intrinsic and extrinsic motivation: Fits if pay is the only thing keeping you there and the work itself gives nothing back.
Loss aversion: Could be that losing the salary looms larger than what you'd gain. Check how you weigh the two.
Financial strain: Check whether debts and dependants mean you can't leave yet. That may be a fact, not a belief.
Money status: Fits if the salary props up a life or an image you'd be ashamed to let go of.
Learned helplessness: Could be that past attempts to change went nowhere. Check whether you've stopped looking at all.
Burnout: Fits if you're exhausted, cynical and getting less done, and the hate grew over time.
Questions to carry
- Last Sunday evening, what did I feel when I thought about Monday?
- What would I be most afraid to lose if I earned less?
Also said as
- golden handcuffs
- hate my job but the salary is too good
- can't leave because of the money
- stuck in a well-paid job
- trapped by my mortgage in a job i hate
- my husband hates his job but won't quit