Situation · Money and survival

“I earn well and still feel broke”

What could be going on

Relative income: Fits if you measure yourself against people who earn more. Check who you compare your life with.

Hedonic adaptation: Could be that each rise becomes the new normal within months. Check what felt like a luxury three years ago.

Money status: Fits if spending keeps up an image: the right postcode, car or school, even when it strains you.

Mental accounting: Check whether money sits in separate mental pots, so a bonus feels free while the rent pot runs dry.

Money vigilance: Could be the feeling, not the numbers. Check whether your accounts are fine and the fear stays anyway.

Money worship: Fits if you believe the next rise will fix it, and the last one didn't.

Questions to carry

  1. On the last day before payday, what did I tell myself about where the money went?
  2. Who am I comparing myself with when I say I'm broke?

Also said as

  • good salary but always out of money
  • six figures and living paycheck to paycheck
  • where does all my money go
  • why do i never have money even though i earn a lot
  • high income but feel poor
  • my partner and i earn well and still struggle

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