“I earn well and still feel broke”
What could be going on
Relative income: Fits if you measure yourself against people who earn more. Check who you compare your life with.
Hedonic adaptation: Could be that each rise becomes the new normal within months. Check what felt like a luxury three years ago.
Money status: Fits if spending keeps up an image: the right postcode, car or school, even when it strains you.
Mental accounting: Check whether money sits in separate mental pots, so a bonus feels free while the rent pot runs dry.
Money vigilance: Could be the feeling, not the numbers. Check whether your accounts are fine and the fear stays anyway.
Money worship: Fits if you believe the next rise will fix it, and the last one didn't.
Questions to carry
- On the last day before payday, what did I tell myself about where the money went?
- Who am I comparing myself with when I say I'm broke?
Also said as
- good salary but always out of money
- six figures and living paycheck to paycheck
- where does all my money go
- why do i never have money even though i earn a lot
- high income but feel poor
- my partner and i earn well and still struggle